Long-Term Affair Dating Versus One Night Stands

Posted by Marital Affair
Posted: April 22, 2015


If you are considering having an affair, you have many options available to you. One of the things you will need to consider is whether you are planning to have a long-term partner for your affair or to have a series of one-night stands with several different sexual partners. Here we take a look at just that as we compare long-term affair dating with one night stands.

Effort in finding partners

Finding a sex dating partner that is a good match for you can take time and effort. If you have committed that time and found someone you are sexually compatible with and you enjoy spending time together, then it makes sense to keep the same partner for as long you continue affair dating. If you choose to have different sexual partners, then you will need to put the same amount of time and effort into finding each and every one of them on an adult dating site.

Level of excitement

If the predominant reason that you started affair dating is to enjoy the thrill of sex with a new partner, then one night stands may be the better option for you as having sex with the same partner may begin to lack in the excitement stakes. However, if your motives are just to enjoy a new sexual relationship, you may prefer the familiarity of having some adult fun with the same partner over a period of time.

Commitment issues

The problem with just having one adult dating partner is that you may find that you develop an emotional relationship with each other. If you want your sex dating to be completely emotional free, then this might not be the best option for you. In contrast, if you have agreed to meet for a one night stand with people who only want the same thing, you will not have time to build a connection so you will not risk falling into a relationship with emotional commitment.

Potential risks

All marital affairs pose some risks, and how you manage them will make all the difference between a successful adult dating experience and being caught. You need to consider whether the same partner or multiple partners will pose a greater chance of getting caught.

On the one hand, a long-term partner is likely to build a relationship of trust with you. However, if they become emotionally attached, they may tell your spouse. In the case of one night stands, you will not need to worry about emotional commitment so there is little motivation for them letting out your secret, but you need to pick your partners carefully as there will be no trust in the relationship either.

Whether you decide to have long-term affair dating partner or a series of one night stands is entirely your choice, but you should weigh up the pros and cons of each before making your decision.

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