First dates are your opportunity to make a good impression, even you already met through adult dating sites and had some conversation. You should approach your first meeting with the goal of making sure that your date has as much fun as possible, so they’ll want to date you again.
Dinner and A Movie
This is an old standby and classic for a reason, you simply have to approach it the right way. If you do dinner early in the evening, it gives you time to get to know each other and make conversation. From the very beginning you have the opportunity to put your best foot forward and make an impression. Make sure the conversation during dinner isn’t all about you, ask your date questions that show that you are interested and want to know more about them. Take the opportunity to flirt and tease a bit in order to create a more intimate connection before transitioning to the movie.
If you’ve handled dinner well, your date should feel comfortable with you, which is a good thing since you’re about to sit next to each other in a dark theater for over an hour. If you’ve managed to build up intimacy and sexual tension this could go very well for you and you may not end up paying attention to the movie at all. You can’t always leverage dinner into becoming a movie make-out session, but it’s not the worst thing in the world you could attempt.
Dancing and Drinks
One of the best ways to create an exciting and sensual atmosphere is dancing. If you can find a club or bar that has a decent dance scene, the combination of music, drinks and physical contact can make for some explosive chemistry. It’s usually better to start with drinks over conversation and flirting to set the mood and loosen both of you up a bit. If you are going dancing make sure that you are actually able to dance reasonably well and that you know the type of music they play at the venue.
The Bookstore Date
It may seem a bit odd, but a bookstore date is the perfect way to have a unique and interesting date that doesn’t feel cliché. It gives you an opportunity to talk and get to know each other while having the added benefit of utilizing props. You can talk about your favorite books, music and magazines and even show them off to each other. You will have plenty of opportunities to sit across from, or next to, each other and build up closeness and intimacy. The bookstore also functions as a very low pressure date. It’s not expensive unless you want it to be, you usually have the chance to grab a coffee in store and either of you can leave at any time. It also allows you to transition the date very easily to another location and you can steer the conversation in that direction at any time without difficulty.
No matter where you go or what activities you are engaging in, make sure both of you are having fun and enjoying the experience. It’s not worth doing otherwise!Tags: adult dating sites, affair dating, Dating Tips