Writing Your First Message on an Affair Dating Site

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If you are trying affair dating for the first time, you will probably have a lot of questions about how you go about being successful at finding a playmate. One such question might be about what you should put in the very first message that you fire off to a potential date.

Of course, your first tasks are to create a profile and upload a photograph of yourself. Then, you can start connecting with people. Once this has been done, you could sit back and wait for someone to make the first move and get in touch with you. However, you are more likely to be successful at finding a potential date if you take the plunge and message them first. What you write in your first message is important, though, so here are a few tips:

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Why One Night Stands are a Part of a Healthy Sex Life

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I’ll bet that at some stage in your life, dear reader, you may have decided to participate in a one night stand – most likely more than once too ( that’s what affair dating is for). I’m not talking about drunken fumbles so much here, although there’s a good chance it may have been the happy ending to night out on the town – more I’m referring to having awesome and fun sex with a guy or girl on a one off basis. Difficult to admit isn’t it, considering that for some reason, and god knows why, we are so hung up about one night stands. Read More

Top Tips for Talking Dirty on an Adult Dating Site

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Flirting is a fun part of
adult dating and building up attraction with the opposite sex. It takes quite a bit of confidence to be able to able to not only flirt, but talk dirty. Talking dirty in your online adult dating chats can be a real turn on for the right person, but you have to be careful that you know where the line is.

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Spot a Dud Adult Dating Lover Before You Hit the Sheets

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No-one wants to start what they think will be a hot, steamy, sexually fulfilling adult dating affair, only to find they have chosen a lousy lover. Time spent with a lover is short, so who wants to spend it giving someone a basic sexual how-to lesson? Despite how sexy a potential partner comes across on a dating site, in an email or even during sexting, they may still turn out to be lousy in the sack. Here’s how to spot a dud lover before you hit the sheets.

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5 Tips for Maintaining a No Strings Marital Affair

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Married couples in affairs lay all kinds of ground rules for their extra-marital adult dating coupling. When you meet someone with whom you would like to have an affair with, both (or either) of you may bring up the option of a no strings attached relationship. This type of affair means not only is there no possibility of either party leaving their significant other, but both of you, should you choose, can have multiple affairs simultaneously. Here are five tips on maintaining a no strings attached affair.

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1. Be Clear From the Get-Go
Negotiating the waters of starting an affair is rarely easy, although very provocative and exciting. Whomever you want to begin a marital affair with, you need to be clear from the beginning that they will not be your one and only sexual partner. Never mislead someone. If the other party squirms, even in the slightest, or asks if you can re-visit the issue down the road, move on. They could be more trouble than they are worth.
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Have You Got a Sexual Bucket List for Adult Dating?

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As we begin to get a bit older, thoughts often turn to the things that have not yet been done including but not exclusively adult dating. Instead of wishing for what has not been, it’s time to start jotting down the things that you wish you had done.  Why not make a bucket list? We’re not talking about a regular schedule of places you’d like to see before you die, but a sexually adventurous agenda.  Any wonderful fantasies you have entertained can, in fact, become a reality.  This can be a great activity for partners or if you’re going solo.  Let your creativity be your guide.  Here are a few tips to help you get on your way to creating your own sexual bucket list that you can tick off on your adult dating adventure.
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How to Cope With The Affair Dating Guilt

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Having an affair dating can be a lot of fun and a great way to deal with not feeling completely sexually satisfied by your partner. However sometimes it comes with the unwanted extra baggage of guilty feelings. You may feel bad about stepping outside of your relationship, or maybe you feel like a hypocrite around other people. Usually these feelings have to do more with meeting other people’s expectations than how you view your own situation.

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Confide In A Trusted Friend

Sometimes keeping things to yourself is the best way to maintain your privacy, but it can also take its toll emotionally. If you have a friend that you are certain you can trust, maybe one that is in the same situation as yourself or has been in the past, you should consider confiding in them. It will provide you with someone who you can vent to and unburden yourself to without having to worry about negative consequences. It’s usually best if this person is friends with just you and not your partner, as this eliminates loyalty conflicts that could become an issue. The most important thing is that this is someone you can trust, either because they can’t compromise you without you revealing a secret of theirs or because of the nature of your relationship. Read More

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Mistakes Men Make with Their Online Dating Profiles

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It’s funny how setting up an online affair dating profile fills so many men with dread, because with a little understanding of what should be included – and what certainly ought not – guys will find themselves suddenly receiving a great deal more interest from prospective lovers. Before we get into the practicalities remember above all that by creating an online profile, looking for a discreet relationship is entering the Grand Slam of the dating scene. It requires a substantial amount of individual transparency coupled with good taste and an utmost respect for each other’s privacy. A successful profile ought to highlight all of these features, and demonstrate sheer reliability and sincerity above anything else.
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